Her money, His Money, Our money. Wahala no de finish ooo
What is the Issue with this money thing, that it scatters families, destroys relationships and lives?
I mean, is finances not supposed to be discussed before marriage. Abi what do people talk about during courtship. Please, if you do not know the important things to talk about during your courtship please download this book
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I do not understand how a woman would let her child die because she was waiting for her man to bring money for the hospital bills.
When she had money in her bank account, based on the reason, “he is not always providing”.
I am not one to promote divorce, my faithful readers can tell you, I am a ride or die chick.
That’s why I would take my time to find my husband, even if it means leaving him at the altar because the truth was revealed, one I cannot deal with.
I would postpone the wedding for us to deal with that issue first.
And I wonder why people are so in a hurry to get that marriage status that you don’t scrutinize the person you want to marry.
When getting married, you should know it is not about you anymore, but about the two of you and the children, you bring into your world.
Hence, if he/she is not treating you right, you let her go.
If not, you are a team and you need to work together as one. If you lack chemistry, go on vacations or see a couple’s therapist and build it.
It’s true people change after a while, but the deep things don’t.
This woman has lost her child because she was trying to prove a point to her husband his weakness or lack of provision for her when she could live her own life without him and let him be happy in his world.
We need to be very cautious if not the institution of marriage would turn to ashes and complete nonsense.
Ladies take your time. There is nothing wrong with your age.
Men, build yourself to build your wife. That is what they call “Head the House”, a leader.
So, what if you earn more than your partner?
Are you supposed to ridicule her/him because of it?
There are different methods to family money, agree on one pattern before you get married and revisit it together when your finances change.
What’s your view on Finances in Marriage?
What would you have done differently as the woman?
drop your comments below!
While the woman played with her son’s life, and finally lost it, there are other ways to prove Ur point not when it comes to life and dead.
Marriage changes people, some from bad to good while some from good to bad, some improve.
When me and hubby where dating he hardly give me money, I don’t bother cause I have my source of income. After marriage he assumed his duty, he never fails for ones, so to me know Ur partner very well before taking that step, if u can’t take it just walk away.
Wow, that’s another level to it. So you can’t really judge by the fact that they give you money or not while you are dating, you will have to enter to know the real deal.
Hello,
You would be amazed how much people change after marriage even after thorough discussions about finance, sex, etc. The woman in this case acted stupidly, she should have paid and know in her heart that the husband is not responsible
In my own case, the mistake I made was being open about my finance, I am still paying the price for it now. It is so easy to ask questions, pray you don’t marry a pretender who lies easily.
I wish you well
Amen ooo. I just learnt from your comment that, It is one to ask the question, it is another thing for them to answer honestly. May God help us all. So how where you able to liberate yourself after being open about your finances.
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Like I was amazed as well at the woman ooo.
Me I would take of my child first then come back and face the man. My own child ! The woman is useless. Money kill her there. 25000 naira!