It is a very pathetic situation to be a pet or on-call nurse or maid to a man who doesn’t even remember your name until he needs some booty or house clean up. It is also not a guy’s fault if the ladies don’t have standards. they cannot force standards on a lady, they respect it “if it is in place” and play on “if it is out of place”. So, ask yourself, are your STANDARDS in or out of place?
Category: Relationship Tips
The Battle between Mother in-Laws and Wives
Today, I will be talking about something different. The preconception that “the mother-in-law and wife relationship is always terrible and should be avoided in marriage,” is a misconception”. I went talking to a lot of ladies about their thoughts about their mother-in-law. I was shocked because so many of them gave frightening responses. Some of […]
Wedding Jitters ….. Are you SCARED?
The night before the wedding, when you are having jitters about doing it right. If he is right, should you wait for a little more? And then The day comes and you see the caterers moving up and down, your bridesmaids come to help with the wardrobe and accessories, and the makeup artists do a […]
Single Loneliness
Single Loneliness- It’s been on my mind all day: Marriage, Relationship and Love: Two of my friend got engaged last month and it felt like time was passing me by, I always want to wait, holding on to God for my own and with the understanding that my time would not pass me by since […]
On Your Mark? Set? STOP!!!
Do you think you are ready for this? yes, you have met his parents, he has paraded you like a trophy and you think you belong to him and at last, he is yours. I frankly have to ask, Is your union going to glorify God, Is it going to be Registered in Heaven as […]
CAUGHT UP IN US: love or lust.
FOR SINGLE LADIES YEAH! This morning as I was on my way to work and I saw the picture of the guy I was having an emotional attachment to and the next thing I knew was that: I began imagining how sex with him would be like, I was practically starting to get lost in […]
Dating an older Man by Leke Alder
I was thinking of this post, and one of my favourite relationship speakers wrote it. Leke Alder is a insightful relationship expert. I hope this explain it all. Enjoy. My dear Jill, you found yourself dating a rich older man, middle-aged. You’re 30 I guess. You want to know how to relate to him successfully. […]
Her money, His Money, Our money.
Her money, His Money, Our money. Wahala no de finish ooo What is the Issue with this money thing, that it scatters families, destroys relationships and lives? I mean, is finances not supposed to be discussed before marriage. Abi what do people talk about during courtship. Please, if you do not know the important things […]
50 POINTS TO NOTE FOR SINGLES & MARRIED
50 POINTS TO NOTE if you are SINGLE or planning to get MARRIED