The night before the wedding, when you are having jitters about doing it right. If he is right, should you wait for a little more?
And then
The day comes and you see the caterers moving up and down, your bridesmaids come to help with the wardrobe and accessories, and the makeup artists do a number on your looks. You then stand in front of the mirror and you think to yourself, you have never looked any more beautiful.
And then
You walking down the aisle, holding your father’s arms, and you are scared because you would miss him and walk with him like this would be the first and last, him looking so handsome and close to tears about giving you up to another man after training and sponsoring you your whole life to the present, only to give you up to another man to continue and he is not so certain of the man’s credentials. He is only hoping he does right by you and because you told him you love that man, it’s ok for him to give you up, but he feels your fear and also the hard grip of his arm by you.
And then,
The moment you look at the groom and feel the love all the fear is gone and you can’t wait to get to stand beside him and say I do.
And then,
The moment you say bye to your father when you know you won’t be under his roof or hearing his voice in the morning or hugging him from his back when he is ironing or helping you out with something.
And then,
You look into the eyes of your groom and everything fades away and you say your vows and promise each other Love Forever.
And then,
You are pronounced Man and Wife, Yes! Finally, you are married.
And then,
The marriage consummation, full of love and you now understand what passion, affection and the whole idea of Love what perfect is all about because you feel totally complete and overflowed by everything.
And then,
you wonder……
What if I had done it with the wrong person?
What if I had settled for less: would I still feel the same?
What if we can’t stay together because we do not live the same way?
But I would say…
Those questions should be answered before you say I DO!.
Marriage shouldn’t be missed.
We have to do it right!
Find out a lot about your partner and be alright… I’m alright lol.
You can use this book: 100 questions to answer before Marriage