It is a very pathetic situation to be a pet or on-call nurse or maid to a man who doesn’t even remember your name until he needs some booty or house clean up. It is also not a guy’s fault if the ladies don’t have standards. they cannot force standards on a lady, they respect it “if it is in place” and play on “if it is out of place”. So, ask yourself, are your STANDARDS in or out of place?
Category: Writings
Appearance!! Wahala!
“You are addressed by the way you dress.“ Jaachynma N.E. Agu This is not a matter the religion, background, belief or conviction, this is the accepted code for morality everywhere. The first mode of perception or qualifying anyone is based on how the person looks. The central idea or first impression one gets about a […]
Traffic Friends
So traffic was standing still today. My car was literally on the same spot for 30 mins no caps. I was cranky, I was frustrated and I was exhausted. For someone who likes to move with speed, you can see how draining this kind of traffic could be. To top it off, I hadn’t eaten […]
The Battle between Mother in-Laws and Wives
Today, I will be talking about something different. The preconception that “the mother-in-law and wife relationship is always terrible and should be avoided in marriage,” is a misconception”. I went talking to a lot of ladies about their thoughts about their mother-in-law. I was shocked because so many of them gave frightening responses. Some of […]
Wedding Jitters ….. Are you SCARED?
The night before the wedding, when you are having jitters about doing it right. If he is right, should you wait for a little more? And then The day comes and you see the caterers moving up and down, your bridesmaids come to help with the wardrobe and accessories, and the makeup artists do a […]
Single Loneliness
Single Loneliness- It’s been on my mind all day: Marriage, Relationship and Love: Two of my friend got engaged last month and it felt like time was passing me by, I always want to wait, holding on to God for my own and with the understanding that my time would not pass me by since […]
On Your Mark? Set? STOP!!!
Do you think you are ready for this? yes, you have met his parents, he has paraded you like a trophy and you think you belong to him and at last, he is yours. I frankly have to ask, Is your union going to glorify God, Is it going to be Registered in Heaven as […]
CAUGHT UP IN US: love or lust.
FOR SINGLE LADIES YEAH! This morning as I was on my way to work and I saw the picture of the guy I was having an emotional attachment to and the next thing I knew was that: I began imagining how sex with him would be like, I was practically starting to get lost in […]
Dating an older Man by Leke Alder
I was thinking of this post, and one of my favourite relationship speakers wrote it. Leke Alder is a insightful relationship expert. I hope this explain it all. Enjoy. My dear Jill, you found yourself dating a rich older man, middle-aged. You’re 30 I guess. You want to know how to relate to him successfully. […]
The Birth Control
As we all know, birth control has been a real issue among African people. We have many people who hold different opinions and beliefs regarding birth control or family planning. When I go through the street of Nigeria and I see so many children begging, or I see a woman with twin kids begging for […]
The Conservative Beauty.
So like Lizzo, everyone knows I am unashamed of my body. I used to think, “if you got it flaunt it”. Wear what you like, in as much as you are comfortable in it. This has been my excuse for every outfit. So what changed? Dressing up was a problem because all these designers, construct for the small size and frame to fit and then take such designs and input a plus size measurement and call it a plus-size collection.
The Road From Yesterday
The Road From Yesterday Wow, I’m a year older! it’s surreal. I reflect on my life and I see how strong I have been. The road has not been smooth. I expect myself to be at a different level than where I am right now. I am so full of ambition and I feel so […]
Save Make-up Money & Save Bag Space
Most makeup brands sell a range of makeup brushes to compliment their makeup. However, we do not want to carry all that weight around, we need room for the makeup pieces as well.
We want something functional, unique, top quality and affordable. Organising our bags for work and fun shouldn’t be stressful or heavy.
The heart of Servitude.
PAB ONLINE readers it has been a while, How has the pandemic been with you all, I hope you all are safe and have not lost anyone? You all are always in my prayers. Because I need you to constantly read, share and learn from my post. Yes, oo! I am selfish with all of […]
Be Ye Hearers & Doers of Good Words
One morning as I was driving to work. I had a couple of colleagues with me in the car. We made it a habit to carpool to save resources, I didn’t know one of them was monitoring my driving. As we were driving, the lady at the passengers’ seat said to me; “you are very […]
Our Deepest Fear commentary
I read this poem and I felt so much connection with it. Not because it is a popular poem but because of the meaning it packs. I would be sharing what each verse means to me. when you read it, kindly let me know what the poem means to you as well. Our deepest fear […]
What Makes a woman Spiritual?
In these modern terms. being a spiritual woman has been confused to mean being conservative in one’s doctrine. Beliefs, dressing or life choices (like a career path, life-partner etc.). So many women have lost themselves, their uniqueness or rather that spark in them that makes them who they are. Some have lost their esteem in […]
Understanding Our Christ Identity
A lot of us when we are asked who are we in Christ? We began to say what we have heard is a possibility of what we can do in Christ. Most times, we say those things not because we have a deep relationship or knowing it beyond doubt what we are saying. Knowing who […]
How scary happiness feels
How scary it is when things move so fast and you can’t explain it! You want to slow down because you think it is too fast so it can’t be real and then again you don’t want to slow down because you think you might be making a mistake missing out on happy things. Conventional […]
Her money, His Money, Our money.
Her money, His Money, Our money. Wahala no de finish ooo What is the Issue with this money thing, that it scatters families, destroys relationships and lives? I mean, is finances not supposed to be discussed before marriage. Abi what do people talk about during courtship. Please, if you do not know the important things […]